-"Is this a reasonable solution?"
-"Will this solution be effective?"
-"Is it secure?"
-"How do you expect to feel?" "How do you think other people will react?"
Assist your youngster in making a decision. It is allowed to proceed if your youngster comes up with an impractical solution as long as it is harmless. Allow her to learn by experiencing the repercussions of her decisions. Simply leave the option open to rework the solution if it does not appear to be working. Assist your youngster in developing a strategy for achieving the answer.